Faced by absolute reality

I've been watching a show called "Canada's Worst Driver." It's interesting to see how many of these demonstrably poor drivers argue how they are indeed very good. One activity on every season is a test called, "Know where you're wheels are." The goal is to stay on two narrow paths without falling off. The drivers nearly always state beforehand that they will ace the test, and some do, but then when the wheels crash off the drivers are mystified. There's a definite lack of perspective and an unwillingness to accept criticism, even when it's the undeniable reality of wheels falling off a rail and the only possible cause is the driver's own mistakes.

I'm guessing none of us enjoy criticism when we do things wrong. It feels bad to have our goofs pointed out, and it riles our defensiveness. However, it's absurd to deny reality and truth only to cover our feelings. At some point, we must humble ourselves and accept responsibility. This is maturity in play, and we hopefully teach our children to choose this path. I believe we only truly grow when we mess up and have to learn to do better. Mistakes are a significant key to victorious life.

Back to terrible drivers, I am happy to say that the majority on the show do eventually own up to their failures and proceed to learn a great deal. In fact, I'd wager they become fairly good drivers simply because they have identified their weaknesses and constantly work to improve. This proves how patient and longsuffering instruction is ultimately rewarded with success. I'm encouraged by the show. I'm happy to see people grow better. Mostly, I'm glad we aren't as stubborn in our stupidity as it usually appears.

- M